Sunday, January 30, 2011

Time to CELEBRATE!! Formatura - Brazilian style

My friend Gustavo graduated from University this weekend!  He is now the proud holder of a public relations diploma as well as a job with IBM!  I am so proud of him and it was so nice for him to include me in the celebration festivities.

The ceremony where the graduates actually receive their diplomas was on Friday.  I went along as well but failed to bring my camera so I unfortunately do not have any photos of Gu in his cap and gown.  The ceremony was really nice, there were about 40-50 graduating students I would guess.  They have a very formal entrance where each student enters more or less separately and files up to the front.  There were 3 nice speeches that I was able to understand about 50% of (pretty good don't you think?!)  Then came the calling of the names.  Now, in both of my graduation ceremonies there were hundreds of names to go through, so it was impractical to pause after each name and celebrate individually.  Despite this making the event a bit anti-climatic (after all you did just spend 4 years of your life slaving over text books to be standing at this moment) the process was remarkably efficient and simple.   This practice either does not apply to smaller groups of graduates or the efficiency argument is trumped by some need to honor each student.  This was the case for these 40-50 students.  I hate to say it... but I was not interested in clapping after the 4th name was called.  I was even less interested in watching each student hug each of the 6 school board members.  Regardless it was fun to jump up and clap for Gustavo when his name was called.  He did look very nice in his cap and gown!

The following day (Saturday) there is the big celebration party.  Gustavo described it to me as a Barbie Dream Dance for girls (or basically a prom).  I was excited to be invited to go, so I went out to find new shoes and ended up with a new dress as well - what to do about impulse buys?!  Here are some photos of the night.  It was a long night to say the least.  Started around 11:30, got home at 6AM with sore, but not as bad as I was expecting, feet.  Very fun to be apart of the activities. 

My new dress!  All ready to go out and celebrate with Gustavo!
Sitting in my air conditioned room trying not to melt.  It is so hot here!  Lacy, I think of you getting ready in our NYC apartment all the time now as I sweat in an effort to look pulled together.
Gustavo!!  So happy to be done with university!
Gu with his brother - acting silly on the dance floor.
Gu and I stumbled upon this colorful chair... little did we know when we found it what was intended for...
Tequila shots... that was it's purpose.
Tequila shots followed by several very fast spins!! Round and Round!!
Oh my...
Sabrina (Gu's friend) and I having fun drinking Caiparinhas!
Gu and I - looking pretty happy there Gustavo... *wink*
Gustavo and another graduate.. I forget his name but he lived in Pennsylvania for a while, so we bonded over or mutual American experiences.
Me, Gu, and Sabrina - the night was starting to wind down... I'm going to guess this was taken at ~ 4:00AM
The engineer in me got excited about this contraption.  It is a series of drums that can all be beat at the same time by pulling a lever at the bottom.  They are shallow, tight topped drums so the effect is a bit like symbols being smashed together without the metallic bite to them.

In other news... I learned that a Gate Valve, when translated from Portuguese to English is a Guillotine Valve.... somehow shutting of flow of liquids or moving particles (powder, gas, etc) feels so violet and French Revolutionary!!

Monday, January 17, 2011

Going Green isn't a Fad, nor is it an Option

"Going Green"

I use that phrase a lot.  I claim to be "going green" in as many aspects of my life by doing things to the best of my ability to be eco friendly.  At the end of the day though, I still crawl into bed feeling really hypocritical and down right embarrassed that I am not better.  Consider this the disclaimer as I climb up on my soapbox to preach about environmental friendliness, I am not perfect, I am not net energy zero or negative, I am however... passionate. 
Being Green is not a fad.  It is not a special edition of a monthly magazine, it is not bringing reusable bags to the grocery store, and it is not easy.  Nor is it an option.

Being Green as I am learning is anything but easy, or fast, or effortless.  Being Green is the next necessary step in the American Dream.  We used to be the Land of Milk and Honey.  I want to be the Land that still has grass pastures for cows and fields of flowers for honey bees.  I fear we are running out of both in an ever accellerating pace.  

I have fairly strong views on a lot of political topics.  I align pretty strongly with the liberal thinking folks on many issues and my Green vein only magnifies that alignment.  However, I don't see Going Green as a political issue anymore.  Going Green has to be something that we don't fight over doing, but we fight over how to do it better than we used to do.  I can point my finger at the Bush Administration for trying to undo a lot of efficiency programs and failing to push standards higher.  I can also point my finger at the Democrats who rolled over and let a lot of bad policy be passed by very obvious acts of special interests.  I can point my finger at my own family who as a family of 4 has 4 vehicles, 3 SUVs and one sports car, none of them are hybrid or fuel efficient.  We are the families that drive the markets to produce cars that are not global competitive and it breaks my heart.  I sold my car almost 2 years ago when I moved to NYC.  I don't miss it one bit.  I do however dread moving back to the US where I will need to purchase a car again do to our nonexistent public transit. 

I can point the finger at myself as well for not doing better.  I use my right to vote to sway government policy but I do not usually use my intellect to try to have a dialogue with those people I elected to insure they know what I really want in governance.  I've never written a letter, I've never gone to a protest, I've never signed a petition, I've never invested my money into a truly green company.  I've never studied ecofriendly technologies, and try as I may, I've failed to persuade anyone into buying ecofriendly products.  Many times, I have failed to buy ecofriendly products as well.  This is why I crawl into bed feeling hypocritical.  Despite my good intentions and point of view regarding the environment, I still go to bed consuming WAY more than the average human on earth, and probably a lot more than the average American does.

So my plea to those who will listen is this:  I am going to try to do better and I hope that you will to.   Can we do better in trying to make the US an energy leader again?  Help us become the most environmentally forward thinking country on the globe?  Can we do better in using our collective dollars to invest in resources and products that do not fund terrorist organizations (Hello OPEC nations), do not encourage non-sustainable business practices (Hello deforestation of Rain forests), and do not put harmful amounts of CO2 into the atmosphere creating irreversible changes to our climate?  I am going to try.  Will you try with me?

I am reading a great book right now called Hot, Flat, and Crowded by Thomas Friedman.  I highly encourage you to read it also, or at a very minimum read these quotes and please... try harder to love Mother Nature, if not for Mother Nature, than for the American economy and that standard of living you've grown so accustomed to.

"September 11 knocked us off our game, prompted us to pull in, to export more fear than hope, to build walls rather than windows, and to devote enormous amounts of money and energy to homeland security rather than nation-building at home."

"What it illuminated was that our oil addiction is not just changing the climate system; it is also changing the international system in four fundamental ways. First, and most important, through our energy purchases we are helping to strengthen the most intolerant, antimodern, anti-Western, anti–women’s rights, and antipluralistic strain of Islam—the strain propagated by Saudi Arabia."

"Ross’s study offers data indicating that when a nation’s oil income goes up, the number of women in the workforce and the number of women who gain political office both go down—other factors being equal. “These results are consistent with the claim that oil production reduces female political influence by reducing the number of women who work outside the home,” "

"Mother Nature “is just chemistry, biology, and physics,” Watson likes to say. “Everything she does is just the sum of those three things. She’s completely amoral. She doesn’t care about poetry or art or whether you go to church. You can’t negotiate with her, and you can’t spin her and you can’t evade her rules. All you can do is fit in as a species. And when a species doesn’t learn to fit in with Mother Nature, it gets kicked out.” "
"We are the only species in this vast web of life that no animal or plant in nature depends on for its survival—yet we depend on this whole web of life for our survival. We evolved within it. As we adapted to it, it shaped us into what we are. We humans need that web to survive—it doesn’t need us. But we sure need it—and it thrives only if the whole system works in harmony."

"Remember: oil, coal, and gas are all exhaustible resources. The more of them we use, the more their price goes up. Wind, solar, electric car batteries, solar thermal, and geothermal are all technologies. They benefit from learning curves. The more we use them, the more we move them down their cost-volume learning curves; they cost less, do more, and deliver more energy for less money."

"Just because we can’t sell shares in nature doesn’t mean it has no value."

"What is our problem? If the right things to do—most notably raising the gasoline tax and putting a fixed, durable, long-term price on carbon—are so obvious to the people who know the most about the energy business, why can’t we put them in place?"

"But let’s not confuse what is necessary with what is preferable, and let’s not call a pig a rabbit. Coal is never going to be a clean fuel in CO2 terms. It is preferable that we transition away from coal as fully as possible, as alternatives become cost-effective."

Please... can we all just try to do better??

Sunday, January 09, 2011

Well hello 2011, nice to meet you.

Last year I posted my 2010 New Year's resolutions and was proud to say that I accomplished all 3 of them!  There were:
1) Get south of the equator - achieved in May with my trip to Peru and again with my move to Brazil
2)  Complete a century (100 mile) bike ride - completed the Montauk Century ride with my good friend Gavin
3) Improve my Spanish - after finding out my move to Brazil, I changed my goal to Portuguese and I went from zero Portuguese skills to more than zero!

In the spirit of continuous improvement and goal setting, here are my resolutions for 2011:
  1. Travel more within Brazil.  I am here for 6 more months and I have not seen or done nearly as much as I would like to.  
    • Rio for Carnival
    • Brotas or Bonito for rafting
    • Foz de Iguasu for seeing the triple boarder with Argentina and Paraguay
    • Manaus for a visit to the Amazon
    • Anywhere else my weekends and my friends might take me!
  2. Succeed in being promoted to a manager
  3. Read more and be more aware of current events
    • I have a Kindle and LOVE it and am open to all suggestions for books.  Comment your favorites for me!
    • I am thinking of subscribing to Globo newspaper for current events (and Portuguese practice)
  4. Improve my still weak Portuguese
    • I take lessons 1 day/week
    • Work on speaking Portugeuse with my friends whom I normally speak English.
    • Conversational is the goal here
Four goals seem achievable!
Now, in the spirit of "That which is measured is managed" I think I need to have ways to track some of these more soft and feely goals such as being more aware of current events and improving my Portuguese.  The other goals are more of a binary yes/no type goal (was I promoted? yes/no, did I travel to these places in Brazil? yes/no).

So I think for current events I will measure the number of articles or books that I read in relation to current events.  No, I don't mean I will have a spreadsheet and count that today I read 2 articles on google news, but it at least gives me a metric to follow.  And for my Portuguese skills, I have decided to work on learning one new verb a day and to revisit my flash cards.  Did I do my flash cards today? yes/no.  What is my new Portuguese verb for the day? (Verb)

On a not totally unrelated note, I am also still working on improving my self image in a number of ways.  Physically I can say for the first time in my memory that I am happy with my body.  I'm wearing a bikini for the first time in my life.  Am I perfect?  Far from!  But I am happy with it and happy for what it can do for me.  Emotionally I am getting much, much better from where I was when I first moved to Brazil.  Having friends and doing fun things has helped enormously with this.  The effort now needs to be focused on continuing the momentum and growing my network of fun people to ensure that Brazil continues to be the great experience that I know it can be.

What are your resolutions for 2011?  How can I help?  

Sending love and happiness to all of you, wherever you may be.

Beijos e Abracos!

Thursday, January 06, 2011

Well Hello Again

So yes, it has been a long while since I updated and now I feel like I have much to share!  It has been a whirlwind these last few weeks with a lot of travel and a lot of visiting family and friends.  I can honestly say that I laughed and smiled more in the last two weeks than I have in a long time.  Very good memories were made, wonderful food eaten, great time spent with people I love. 

First stop: Denver, CO!
It is hard to believe that it was a full year since I had been back home.  Nothing had changed.  It felt like I had walked out last week for a brief vacation and came back with a suitcase.  I think that is a good thing, to have something that is steady and certain in my otherwise fluid life.  I spent 1 week with my family there, celebrating Christmas and just enjoying being back in the US and back with people who love me unconditionally.
Daddy and I in the beautiful Denver weather.  It is December right??  Umm no snow?!

Four stockings all hung with care.  Mommy, Philip, Allison, and Laura

Mommy looking smashing in her party hat.  Sometimes we do the silliest things!

Philip, Laura, and I in our crowns.  Philip looks confused, Laura looks happy, and I look high...

Some of the best wine!  Thank you Lacy for introducing me to it, thank you Philip and Laura for the bottle to take to Brazil!  Now I just need an occasion to drink it.  Monday night is an occasion right?!
Then it was about a 14 hour trip back to Sao Paulo, Brazil where I did a crazy exchange of clothes and suitcases from the long sleeves and jeans I was using in Denver to the bikinis and sarongs that I needed for New Years.  I spent one day at work just to catch up a bit and then two days after getting back to Brazil I was back at the airport heading to Morro de Sao Paulo. Morro is an island off the coast of Brazil, located here just south of Salvador in the state of Bahia.

I was there with 19 other amazing people including my manager, Tatiana, who invited me.  We had an amazing time!!
Tatiana and I hanging out on a beach during lunch.  We had a boat tour around the island and stopped and various beaches and swimming spots.  Please, no commits about how I am as white as the sand.  I am a PORCELAIN GODDESS!! (Thanks Lacy!)

Yeah.... life here was pretty damn good.  Views like this all over the island.

Some of the group just hanging by the pool at the pousada

Camila and I being very chic in our hats

Having a model moment and being happy about the sun protective benefits of my awesome hat!  Note the graffiti on the wall behind me.  Our pousada was based upon the art of graffiti so each room had graffiti style paintings on the walls.  it actually was pretty cool.

   
List of 10 things you must do to have a good new year 
 For a good 2001
1.  Take a salt bath - done
2. Stand in the incense circle -  done
3. Wear new underwear in the color of your wish for 2011 (Blue = peace, white = hope, red = passion, pink = love) *Mine were blue with the word SexKiss on them...*
4. Tie a ribbon for Sr. Bomfim with three knots and make three wishes.  You cannot remove this until it breaks off naturally
5. Use an accessory or clothing in your new year's color.  mine was light blue
6. Don't eat anything that can walk backwards.  Only eat animals that can only move forward (fish, eel, etc.)
7.  Jump 7 waves - done
8. Burn the bad things of 2010 - done
9. Make a boat of your wishes for 2011 and send into the sea - done
10.  Give a rose to the sea goddess for good luck - done


My three knotted ribbon made with three wishes.

Paula and I at our New Years Eve dinner

Writing all the bad things of 2010 and getting ready to burn them.  I really struggled to find bad things, just unfortunate things that ended up being okay... I felt very lucky.

QUEBRA QUEBRA!!  BURN BURN goodbye 2010 negativity!

All our wishes for 2011!  Love, happiness, success, good job, weight loss, everything.  I included wishes for a clean planet - got to let the inner environmentalist out!

The beach before the countdown to new years.  it was PACKED with people!

Getting ready to give my flower offering to the Sea goddess for good luck in 2011.  I hope it works, so far (by day 6) I think 2011 will turn out to be pretty amazing!

After an amazing New Years filled with great Brazilian traditions, champagne, fireworks over the water, and great company the group was ready for more relaxation and chilling out on the island.
Oh yea... life is good.

Second boat tour!  Fernanda, Dago, Tatiana, Camila, Karine!  Great, great, group to hang with all day!

Did I mention that life was good?  Passion fruit juice on the left, mojito on the right, sunset in the background.  Yea.. life is good.
 So we did eventually have to say goodbye to Morro and head back to the mainland to catch flights back to the real world.  Fortunately we had a few days in Salvador to explore and see this amazing town.  Tatiana has been to Salvador many times and had a wonderful agenda planned!

The market in Salvador which is now a tourist spot but before was were the boats docked and all the trading and selling would happen here.  I bought two new dresses!  Very fun!

Oh my!  Pretending to be traditional Bahian woman!

Beautiful church!  Claimed to have the 2nd most amount of gold of any church in Brazil or the world or something like that.  it was pretty impressive inside.

Hanging out in Salvador.  Notice the fun colonial buildings and cobblestone street.  Very great night

Sorry for the blurry pic but it is the best I've got.  This is the group getting ready to watch Olodum perform.

OLODUM So very cool!  Such great energy!

  
Olodum!!  
Olodum is a percussion band that is a very famous Bahian group.  I am not sure if you would consider their stuff Samba or other, but it was good and fun.  They are famous in part to their inclusion in Michael Jackson's music video They Don't Care About Us

Sadly, this was my last night in the Brazilian fantasy I was living for a week.  But thankfully I have some amazing memories and great new friends as a result.
Now it is back to the routine of life.  Somehow, I am okay with that.

I hope everyone's New Years and holidays were amazing and they were spent with people you love.  Big smiles and best wishes for a great 2011!!!

Beijos e Abracos para todos.